It absolutely fries my brain that behaving like an asshole and calling out someone for behaving like an asshole are considered equally offensive by some folks. I think we can all agree that adults need to take responsibility for their own behavior, yes? Maybe…and hear me out here…if someone doesn’t want to be publicly criticized they shouldn’t (checks notes) admin a group that punches down on vulnerable, marginalized people under the guise of humor. That’s just me, though.