Hey girl- have you contacted your local elementary school about the Parents as Teachers program? It saved my butt when I became a mom and suddenly didn't have any connections anymore. Basically it's a home visit program with age-focused activities with a nice person who you can ask anything BUT also being in the program means you get invited to monthly playdates- this is where I made a lot of connections with other moms. Again, saved my butt at a very pivotal time but also made me a more confident parent.