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Spiffy_Dude t1_j8siz9o wrote

Reply to comment by daleearn in My kid is in the hospital, should we transfer? by backgroundmusik

I think you’re being unnecessarily rude. Someone is obviously in a lot of distress and is maybe just needing reassurance that they’re doing the right thing. Maybe have a little empathy.

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daleearn t1_j8smxpp wrote

Ok, Reassurance from rando internet is not reassurance! It is dumb and dangerous!

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Spiffy_Dude t1_j8sodux wrote

It’s about human communication. She’s not asking for treatment advice. That’s a huge difference She’s posting a dilemma that she’s experiencing and wants to speak anonymously about it.

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daleearn t1_j8tiv3k wrote

Cox wants to send her to a specialist in St Louis. My husband doesn't want us to have to go so far and is saying we should transfer her to mercy. Opinions?

This Rando internet guys opinion is ask a Professional!

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Spiffy_Dude t1_j8tjqbv wrote

Some people need to talk things out or bounce ideas around. It helps to clear their head, especially when being pulled in two different directions, like by what she knew was right and her husband’s opinion.

Once again, she’s not asking for medical advice and has the right to speak of her dilemma with people on Reddit. If you think it’s a bad idea, then that’s fine too. You’re allowed to have an opinion, I just think you should be nicer about it. Especially when someone is already obviously going through a lot.

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daleearn t1_j8tk77o wrote

Just in case you have a loved one that is needing health care and a Doctor has recommended a procedure or a specialist, by all means get a second opinion and maybe a third but get them from a Professional or Doctor not the rando on reddit! You can thank me later!LMAO

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