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Moosealicious t1_j31h5kx wrote

Nah, what’s gross is being a piece of shit domestic abuser who physically assaults their partner.

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hytes0000 t1_j31o2z9 wrote

Multiple things can be bad at the same time.

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cagonzalez321 t1_j31qkb0 wrote

You realize he got counseling and they are married now?

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Moosealicious t1_j31tibi wrote

Getting counseling doesn’t erase the fact that he beat his partner, and plenty of abused spouses stay with their abuser. He’s a piece of shit, plain and simple.

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TrappsRightFoot t1_j31w7jq wrote

He kicked her in the leg one time when they were 18 and arguing while drunk. He sought counseling on his own after being honest with their families about what happened and they have now been back together for 30 fucking years.

If we can't forgive people for mistakes they made decades ago that they clearly regret and worked to reconcile then what the fuck are we doing as a society?

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cagonzalez321 t1_j32m12f wrote

No it doesn’t, but the fact that they have been married for 30 years speaks to fact something changed in him AND his wife forgave him. We need to be able to move on from the past…especially if a person has changed their behavior. Our recidivism rate maybe much lower if we could do that.

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