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ExhaustedTechDad t1_iybwr5f wrote

Reply to comment by giveuporfindaway in Will beautiful people lose most of their sexual market value in the coming decades? by giveuporfindaway

you must be fun at parties

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giveuporfindaway OP t1_iybx35a wrote

You must be a handsome man who enjoys laughing at people like me who don't go to parties. You put "Dad" in your name to passively brag about your genetics going on. I've never been invited to a party in my life because I'm disgusting to look at. Have an enjoyable evening with people who find you attractive. I bet you're exhausted because you've had lots of children as a result of your visual genetics being hyper desired.

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Baron_Samedi_ t1_iybyu5b wrote

Maybe work on developing a more beautiful inner you today, because that is all that will matter when the metaverse is a reality and you can choose to look like a supermodel - or a wolpertinger, or whatever suits your fancy.

Volunteer in your community.

Do kind things for people with nothing to offer you.

Try to be a light in the darkness.

And stop comparing yourself to others.

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giveuporfindaway OP t1_iybz606 wrote

If you can confirm that you're ugly and single and plan to be single for the rest of your life then I'll consider your advice valid because it's your personal solution from real life experience. However I have no interest in getting advice from people who are attractive and who have a partner.

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Baron_Samedi_ t1_iyc1tnm wrote

Man, I was born beautiful. I cannot prove this, but my momma and grandma insist it is true, and I choose to believe them.

My favorite things to do have nothing to do with my looks.

I prefer solitude, reading books, and creating the best art I can with the meager talents I have developed. I sometimes volunteer in my community, which makes me happy and might sometimes also help others.

How you look should take a backseat to what you do, regardless.

All I know is, if you aren't beautiful on the inside, then you will not be more fuckable in a post-pretty world.

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Josephv86 t1_iyc09jp wrote

Hahaha, here is some good advice "Lower your standards"

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ChronoPsyche t1_iybzgdg wrote

OP, real talk time. Those who have not struck the genetic lottery do have a little bit tougher of a time, but "ugly" people still get friends and partners. I know this because I see it all the time.

And I put ugly in quotations because few people walk around thinking "oh that's an ugly person". They're just a person and when you get to know someone, their personality is how you view them, not their appearance.

What seems to be your problem is not anything about how you look, but your personality. I don't know how you expect anyone to read a comment like this and come away thinking "wow, this is a really chill person, why is nobody their friend?"

If you act anything close to the way you are acting here in real life, I would seriously suggest working on that. I know you said no shrinks, but you're kinda inviting it.

By the way, I'm never invited to parties either and while I'm not a 10, I'm also not "ugly". I have a reserved/awkward personality and that has held me back in the social world. And a lot of those "ugly" people have a way better social life than me because they are a joy to be around. I know this and fully own it and am working on it. Looks really have less to do with things than you think.

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UnderTheScopes t1_iyc0aea wrote

If I had gold to give, OP please consider this comment🥹

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sumane12 t1_iyc2opu wrote

This comment completely invalidates the first paragraph of your post. Get help buddy.

sending love no matter how ugly you are.

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giveuporfindaway OP t1_iyc3agp wrote

Not sure how it invalidates it. Anyways that person who's bragging about having children started this part of the chain.

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AI-Composer t1_iyc1z7b wrote

You claim you're ugly on the outside. What are your views about your inside?

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