From the comments I’m reading, you’re all trying to explain something that can not be explained, only learned through experience.

I lost my mom a few weeks ago in a matter of 24h. I would do anything to go back and send her to the hospital a day before, just so that she could endure a life-saving procedure to live a few more years, even if with some discomfort. Why? Because of how I lived the situation.

It’s a matter of perspective. You can’t teach what’s RIGHT or WRONG, because no one knows that, we can only say that we feel in a certain way because of our past experiences.