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Sinemetu9 t1_irod9tb wrote

Had first kid in Sept 2019, first 6 months alone (dad working overseas, family & friends overseas), then Covid lockdown, so no nursery as planned, no playgroups, no interaction with other kids even in the park (parents afraid of unknown contagion risk), no social visits. When finally started nursery at 11 months all staff and parents were in masks and half body covered in gear, so kids couldn’t even see faces moving all day, parents couldn’t meet staff or each other. Kid now 3, I’ve recently taken up therapy for effectively PTSD, which kid can’t do. Kid is still way behind in forming sentences, verbalising intentions, interacting with peers (spent half of today’s friend’s birthday party alone in various corners). Very unpleasant times (that I know, theoretically, are unusual), but that’s the only experience we’ve had. Never again.

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Pearl_is_gone t1_irooci9 wrote

I'm so sorry, but sounds like you're on it, and being a caring, good mother at it!

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jade911 t1_irpwn9q wrote

I had my second baby in April 2020 which was during the hardest lockdown we had here in NZ. It's definitely been hard on the whole family, I feel your pain.

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