Alarmed-Wolf14 t1_j87gzsp wrote on February 12, 2023 at 5:17 AM

Reply to comment by HelenAngel in Large study provides evidence that goal incongruence can harm romantic relationship satisfaction by glum-platimium

I mean it’s not always a deal breaker. I’ve always wanted to travel but would give that up for the right person and did.

I think back on it sometimes but I don’t blame them. I made the decision and they aren’t adverse to taking vacations so that’s a good middle ground for me.

HelenAngel t1_j87i4x4 wrote on February 12, 2023 at 5:29 AM

As long as it’s good for you, absolutely. But there are others who would become resentful that they are prevented from leading the life they want to live.