maimou1 t1_j86z0ps wrote on February 12, 2023 at 2:36 AM

Reply to comment by HelenAngel in Large study provides evidence that goal incongruence can harm romantic relationship satisfaction by glum-platimium

idk, I've traveled a bit without husband but with his agreement, and we're still happy together (41 years in August).

slinkysuki t1_j87e242 wrote on February 12, 2023 at 4:48 AM

Well yeah, the agreement is key. You don't have to value everything the same, but you do need to understand that someone else is allowed to have different priorities and you may have to accommodate them from time to time.