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0biwanCannoli t1_j865i28 wrote

I’m in a relationship with a truly traditional person who doesn’t want to work, needs to have 2 kids because her friends do, and expects me to provide everything, like a house. In this economy?!

My money is our money, but her money is her money.

There’s no sex. There’s no communication. Plenty of resentment.

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cabalavatar t1_j86qlm9 wrote

I had a rather similar scenario, minus the kids part. I happily divorced her.

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Xoor t1_j86s49w wrote

That's not a relationship that I would want to be a part of. Just break up.

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FunkyChicken1000 t1_j87acyi wrote

Do not do the kids thing, if this is the real situation. Sorry to tell you, but this isn’t the one. Go your own way and someone else will be better for you.

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opiusmaximus2 t1_j87ehh5 wrote

Most people already do the kids thing then the woman changes because the man can't leave without it costing him a fortune.

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Das_Mime t1_j87rzgg wrote

You seem to realize you're getting nothing out of it

The next step is to end it. Relationships should be mutually beneficial.

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the_first_brovenger t1_j881wdp wrote

That's a woman who wants no responsibility yet expects complete control in the relationship. Leave. Run. She'll stop at nothing to own you.

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nfssmith t1_j88d7zc wrote

My man Admiral Akbar has a heads-up message for you (“it’s a traaaap!”)

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