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ASVPcurtis t1_j85l7l8 wrote

love is when your partners happiness is necessary for you to be happy. if you are stuck in a situation where one of you will be unhappy due to conflicting goals then love would be pretty miserable.

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aidenr t1_j85qhw6 wrote

Put your own mask on before helping others. Your happiness must precede consideration of your partner’s or else you’ll never be able to grow together. Codependency isn’t wrong because it’s a disease, it’s a disease because it doesn’t self correct.

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