BasileusBasil t1_j85a4qb wrote
Reply to comment by Xoor in Large study provides evidence that goal incongruence can harm romantic relationship satisfaction by glum-platimium
This is absolutely true, but it's not always easy to reach your goals. Both me and my gf want to get a house for ourselves, it's not really feasible with our jobs though. It's not that we aren't putting in enough effort, it's that our efforts won't be ever be enough.
C4-BlueCat t1_j88byd4 wrote
As long as you are both putting in that effort, you are still showing yourself capable. The rest are outside factors hindering you.
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BasileusBasil t1_j85j24e wrote
The job market in our country it's an hellscape , do you think that we're it that easy we wouldn't already have done that?
bandyplaysreallife t1_j8643f2 wrote
Moving to a new city and getting a new job in your field is a massive risk assuming it's possible at all.
In the future I'd suggest not giving this kind of advice in this situation, it offers zero valuable insight and comes off incredibly condescending for no good reason.
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