Ok Bro, time to be the most downvoted guy in the history of Reddit.

First Congratulations but now comes the fun part. Make sure it's yours. Your saying she's 35 and to me that means her bio clock alarm went off and she wanted a baby NOW! I've read way too many stories about guys thinking that it's theirs when it's not. There are NON-Invasive tests to show paternity.

Prenatal DNA testing makes it possible to confirm paternity as early as 7 weeks into the pregnancy, using a non-invasive method to provide highly accurate results. At no risk to your health or the health of your unborn child, this lab test can establish a DNA link to the child's biological father.

I know your scared and exited about being a Dad but before she pops the kid out and it comes out looking like a different race or showing 0 of your traits get a test to avoid the baby trap. Too many women these days want to screw around and have a nice guy chump pay for their baby knowing full well that the child isn't theirs. Hell look at some of the Youtube or Reddit stories, I read one yesterday about a guy with 5 kids, none of them were his after 27 years of marriage, his wife was screwing his cousin while he worked 80 hour weeks to provide for his family. don't be that guy. You can pass it off as checking for Birth Defects or ask the doctor quietly but do it now before your on the hook for another mans child.