She was high and drunk, he was high at one point but can't remember if he was high when they woke up and had sex a couple hours later.

I felt the same way, which is why I didn't see it as an issue before until we re-visited the situation.

She said she was manic and thought she was going to move away for a career opportunity so she rekindled their relationship but didn't get the job.

She reached out to me because she's getting married soon and said she wanted to get the conversation off her chest so she could move on and focus on her personal life.