MrsJonesy2012 t1_j6pd5l5 wrote on January 31, 2023 at 11:12 PM

Sounds like he was very high and she was high and drunk.

It's not a clear cut situation because both were to intoxicated to consent. She claims rape, but so could he-as he was too inebriated to give consent also.

Plus she carried on having sex with him for another year, but says you're in the wrong because your now in a relationship with him.

I would block her and move on, sounds like she's trying to cause problems. Maybe her relationship broke down.

ThrowRA_9734 OP t1_j6pjlza wrote on January 31, 2023 at 11:56 PM

She was high and drunk, he was high at one point but can't remember if he was high when they woke up and had sex a couple hours later.

I felt the same way, which is why I didn't see it as an issue before until we re-visited the situation.

She said she was manic and thought she was going to move away for a career opportunity so she rekindled their relationship but didn't get the job.

She reached out to me because she's getting married soon and said she wanted to get the conversation off her chest so she could move on and focus on her personal life.