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trishsf t1_j6p699z wrote

I have this strange observation. If you can make it past 12 years of marriage, it’s likely to last. I can’t count the number of couples that got divorced year 11 or 12. Here’s what I know. Divorce sucks. I had to leave because he became a very angry man so I left for the kids after giving him many chances to get help. Every time the therapist turned the conversation to his issues, he bailed. You have a great foundation. Would you be able to get past this if you worked together to regain that magic that brought you together? If so, fight with everything you have. Divorce sucks even when you have no other choice.

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ragnarocknrock OP t1_j6p6vx6 wrote

I’ve talked to her about everything going on and her reasoning was my last and she has trust issues with me. So she turned to someone else. We’ve gone through a lot and are still together. She says she wants to try with me still but also says a part of her wants to try cause she’s scared to start over with someone else. She also went out with some friends and says she doesn’t know if she misses being single. So I think at this point I’m kinda close to being done.

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trishsf t1_j6p9o6t wrote

I understand. She basically tried out the single life while still married and then decided you were enough or that she didn’t want to make the effort it takes when single. I’m sorry that happened. I’m big on integrity.

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