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ThrowRAexhuasted OP t1_j6nf7sk wrote

Reply to comment by PreferenceIcy3052 in I (F27) am drowning and overwhelmed. Fiancé (M28) does not care and ignores me. by ThrowRAexhuasted

He struggles with being the offensive at all times. It doesn’t matter what to issue is. It could be the smallest thing. If I bring it up, he is immediately upset and withdrawn.

I don’t want to make him do thing he doesn’t want to do. But it feels like he has no problem forcing me into such a hard situation

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PreferenceIcy3052 t1_j6nmixw wrote

Well, that's the point. I haven't heard his side of things, but I'm telling you, he sounds like he's being very selfish.

Why should you have to do the brunt of the work? Either you find a way to make it 50/50, or the person who does the majority of the work ought to have the say in what's going to happen. In this case, that's you.

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