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Cool-Reindeer-6145 t1_j6n8nk3 wrote

I’m sorry you’re going through this. It’s ultimatum time. If he can’t get his shit together and support his family you need to leave his ass. Ask grandma for help.

Give him a deadline. Tell him that on march 1, 1 of 3 things will happen. Either

  • baby will be in daycare, paid for by him, or
  • he will be in management so you can step back and focus on caring for your children and caring for yourself, Or
  • you’re gone with the kid and he can have equal custody, which he’s going ti have to figure out how to manage with his job.
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ThrowRAexhuasted OP t1_j6ncqoq wrote

Whenever I say anything, he just rolls his eyes or ignores me. If I say I want to leave, he doesn’t care.

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Cool-Reindeer-6145 t1_j6nd3ry wrote

Well then you’re down to option 3. He doesn’t sound like a very good partner.

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