NocturnalCoder t1_j6p2fx9 wrote on January 31, 2023 at 10:02 PM

Striping all of the other stuff aside: your fiance decided to make a huge life decion without communicating with you. That is not how adult realtionships work. Up and out 200 miles without telling you and leaving you to help yourself? Super immature move. If she had an issue with what everyone was saying, a conversation with you would have had to be step one. She didn't. Like a teen, she burned bridges to prove strangers wrong. I wouldn't hold my breath to be honest. I am 42 and wouldn't even know where to begin to restore this break of trust and communication

OnlyDekkiHD OP t1_j6p3aut wrote on January 31, 2023 at 10:07 PM

That’s the thing that’s been bugging me, if she had properly spoken to me about the situation we could’ve come to a solution. Instead I’ve just been “ditched” more or less and she expects everything between us to be fine? I can’t wrap my head around the thought process, to the point I don’t think there was one.