I’m 100% independent, I have a job and savings. I don’t live with him out of necessity, haven’t for a while. I’ve become attached to where I live because it’s less than ten minutes away from my job and it’s across the street from the college I want to attend. There’s many factors to this and why I can’t just pick up and leave. My entire family is in another country and I don’t have close friends outside of work.. the thought of doing that all by myself is heart wrenching :/ specially because that’s how I moved out in the first place.. packed up my stuff and left without telling anyone. It’s easier said than done. For now I just want to draw a line in the sand.