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DeadlyJelly18 t1_j6p912e wrote

Reply to comment by Nurse_Hatchet in I need advice about the way my (21m) GF (21f) is behaving with their ex('s) by [deleted]

yes i get what you are trying to say. From what I know about her she has experience with men trying to get something from her. And also, it happened few times when we were in bars/clubs that when some men approached her and made a move on her she froze and wasn't able to do anything about it. I'm not blaming her for anything because she has been through some traumatic stuff and that's why she freezes up. But that makes me even more worried, what if he makes a move and out of fear or something she won't be able to defend herself? I know I'm probably just overthinking, probably I'm just overprotective. idk

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Nurse_Hatchet t1_j6pahgu wrote

Sorry, but if you’re going to try to protect her from every potentially scary/uncomfortable/dangerous encounter with men, be prepared to be her 24/7 body guard. That’s life for women. If she’s not asking you to protect her, I doubt she’ll welcome you constantly stepping in and doing it of your own volition.

I feel like you’re scratching for justifications to tell her not to talk to certain people. Bottom line, if she hasn’t given you a reason to mistrust her and she isn’t asking you to run interference between her and other men, don’t do it. She will not appreciate it.

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