Submitted by Personal_Change_7949 t3_10q88t6 in relationship_advice
I(19M) am kind of traumatized by the fact that my girlfriend(18F) liked being touched on the face by her crush when she was single.
Last week, I came across her chat with her female best friend from March last year in which she said that her crush held her whole face in his hands and she liked it. For context, me, she and her crush were in the same school at this time. We were not in a relationship at that time and were both single. This crush of her, however, had a girlfriend.
We have been in a pretty much healthy relationship for 6 months but I am being unable to trust her ever since i found this out. I confronted her about this and she said that he touched her face for applying glitter on her face as they were playfully doing it with other friends too. I know she is not lying because I remember her sitting and playing with a group of friends that day while I was busy elsewhere.
I totally understand that it is completely normal for her to have crushes while she was single and feeling good about him touching her playfully(not romantically) on the face but I just cannot stop thinking about it. I really dont want it to but thinking about this incident is making me question her loyalty towards me.
I completely understand that this comes across as ridiculous but even I know that. I just need help tackling how I feel about it.
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