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Andle_Randle t1_j6lg5gn wrote

You should just cut your losses and leave. She cheated on you within weeks of making things official and straight up told you that she can't guarantee it won't happen again. Like, cmon man, this is in no way a stable foundation to build a relationship on, and you definitely haven't been dating long enough to make sticking around and hoping she changes worthwhile.

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MisterNiceCam t1_j6lhojj wrote

Break up with her, easy solution…

She has no respect for you, she doesn’t care about you, and she’s gonna keep cheating on you because she can walk all over you as long as you let her… just leave. A month is literally nothing and there are plenty of women that you will actually have a good relationship with.

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spiteful_rr_dm_TA t1_j6lhtz8 wrote

Bruh you have a month invested, and she already cheated? Just be thankful she showed who she truly is and move on with your life.

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Impossible-Cap-7150 t1_j6lrhtc wrote

She’s shown you red flags very early. You should heed that and let her sugar daddy have her and you can move on to someone who won’t cheat after a month and try to blame you.

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GuineaKraut t1_j6nw8iy wrote

Child? And I said 32. Let’s not stray away here. She’s an adult well beyond. Now as far as everything else she’s been awesome. But I take some blame I allowed both our honeymoon phase and emotions make dumb decisions are rush us into a relationship when I had already knew she had these sugar daddies and lived with her ex who’s now her roommate but she has always communicated and after this I feel if she takes the necessary, steps it can be redeemed. I’ve been through much worse females who had no intentions on improving themselves, or others let alone, even having going to therapy.

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