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DM-YOUR-CLEAVAGE t1_j6gdpd4 wrote

You'd be assuming right I'd say. Prepare to be love bombed when that inevitably falls through and he's suddenly lonely again

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Flat_Lengthiness_319 t1_j6gdv8a wrote

Cut contact, he’s keeping you as his backup. Even if he did someday leave his partner and offer you everything he’d just find another backup to have behind your back. He’s just one of those selfish, manipulative, lying people.

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Kooky_Independent656 t1_j6geddt wrote

He's a narcissist...when his girlfriend is not around he reaches out to you. He needs constant attention. Block him. Cut contact with him. Be happy that you are not the girlfriend and he's talking to a side piece.

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Chaoticgood790 t1_j6gfjug wrote

I mean at some point you have to get some self esteem here. You’re keeping contact with a guy that picks you up and discards you at will. You need to remind yourself that this guy is not interested. You feed his ego until he finds someone he actually wants

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Chaoticgood790 t1_j6gidbc wrote

Replying to [deleted] (#1,601,752)

Just remind yourself it’s not real. Or it’s real for that moment and then those moments pass. He’s interested while in between others. That’s not long term.

I wouldn’t try to understand it. Just try to understand how it makes you feel

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Jmm1272 t1_j6go1o8 wrote

Here’s the major red flag 🚩 He said he wished it didn’t have to be this way? IT DOESNT! It is this way because he DOES want it to be this way! It is his choice for it to be this way. Just hope you are clear about that.

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