Chaoticgood790 t1_j6gfjug wrote on January 30, 2023 at 3:26 AM

I mean at some point you have to get some self esteem here. You’re keeping contact with a guy that picks you up and discards you at will. You need to remind yourself that this guy is not interested. You feed his ego until he finds someone he actually wants

[deleted] OP t1_j6gfqr3 wrote on January 30, 2023 at 3:28 AM

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Chaoticgood790 t1_j6gidbc wrote on January 30, 2023 at 3:47 AM

Just remind yourself it’s not real. Or it’s real for that moment and then those moments pass. He’s interested while in between others. That’s not long term.

I wouldn’t try to understand it. Just try to understand how it makes you feel

Jmm1272 t1_j6goe8v wrote on January 30, 2023 at 4:37 AM

If he was interested he would not have pushed you away. You have to look at his actions and not his words