[deleted] OP t1_j6gdvai wrote on January 30, 2023 at 3:15 AM

Reply to comment by DM-YOUR-CLEAVAGE in I feel like I (F 35) was manipulated by this man (M 47) for over a year, and now I’m his back up plan by [deleted]

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DM-YOUR-CLEAVAGE t1_j6gebve wrote on January 30, 2023 at 3:18 AM

Well that's my point - they'll be off again eventually. And he'll come back to you when that happens if you let him

I wouldn't though as clearly he's not worth your time

[deleted] OP t1_j6gemiu wrote on January 30, 2023 at 3:20 AM

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DM-YOUR-CLEAVAGE t1_j6gf07v wrote on January 30, 2023 at 3:22 AM

Of course! Don't fall into the sunk cost mindset- you've already found more energy won't fix it. I'd just cut your losses and find someone actually worthy of your time and attention

kittenwithawhip19 t1_j6gf6ty wrote on January 30, 2023 at 3:24 AM

It's not that she has something you don't. This is on him and his shitty behavior. He likely does the same BS to her and she just tolerates it.

Extricate yourself from the situation

[deleted] OP t1_j6ghbm4 wrote on January 30, 2023 at 3:39 AM

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kittenwithawhip19 t1_j6ghyoz wrote on January 30, 2023 at 3:44 AM

Just don't get down on yourself is all I'm saying. You deserve alot more. You deserve someone that is sure about you. That knows what they want. To love you the way you love them.