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DM-YOUR-CLEAVAGE t1_j6gdpd4 wrote

You'd be assuming right I'd say. Prepare to be love bombed when that inevitably falls through and he's suddenly lonely again

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[deleted] OP t1_j6gdvai wrote

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DM-YOUR-CLEAVAGE t1_j6gebve wrote

Well that's my point - they'll be off again eventually. And he'll come back to you when that happens if you let him

I wouldn't though as clearly he's not worth your time

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[deleted] OP t1_j6gemiu wrote

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DM-YOUR-CLEAVAGE t1_j6gf07v wrote

Of course! Don't fall into the sunk cost mindset- you've already found more energy won't fix it. I'd just cut your losses and find someone actually worthy of your time and attention

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kittenwithawhip19 t1_j6gf6ty wrote

It's not that she has something you don't. This is on him and his shitty behavior. He likely does the same BS to her and she just tolerates it.

Extricate yourself from the situation

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[deleted] OP t1_j6ghbm4 wrote

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kittenwithawhip19 t1_j6ghyoz wrote

Just don't get down on yourself is all I'm saying. You deserve alot more. You deserve someone that is sure about you. That knows what they want. To love you the way you love them.

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