Submitted by ThrowRA_Candylovex t3_10qbzyo in relationship_advice

I have been casually hooking up with this guy since September. And recently when I asked him if I could come over this is what he said. "Hey man, I've been really busy and I have a lot on my plate right now. But I'll let you know when it's good to come over."

I'm asking if I should just block him because I don't know if he's being honest. Or if he just doesn't want to see me anymore. And because I've been talking to other men on dating apps.

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Front_World205 t1_j6p3djx wrote

why would you block him for being honest? he’s busy.

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nightowl2023 t1_j6p3lhz wrote

This is such an extreme reaction.

Cool, you have other options. But someone being to busy should not result in you cutting them out your life.

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Artemisssia t1_j6p42y1 wrote

You’ve been casual so he’d probably just tell you not to bother if he didn’t want to see you anymore. Focus on the other guys you’re talking to on dating apps, as you’re casual with the Septembre guy anyway.

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Accomplished_Sky_857 t1_j6p56er wrote

"Hey man..." sounds like he's talking to a guy friend, or he wanted someone who may have been reading his texts to think it was a guy. Does he normally call you man?

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