Honestly, they both should probably not be together. A couple weeks ago he posted that she works 100+ hours a week to support their family of 4 kids and he doesn't consider it as her supporting the family. (To be clear, he did work most of their marriage while she stayed home with the kids).

She was also 19 and he was 25 when they got married and when she first got pregnant with the first of 4 children, which makes me wonder how old she was when they started dating. Additionally, according to other deleted posts in his history, he's been looking to hook up with multiple other women.

He also smashed her phone and assaulted a client his wife was having a conversation with. Apparently he drove to her workplace at 1:30am at night and beat the guy up then grabbed her phone and "smashed it into pieces." Edit: The same guy he mentions in this post whom she was sitting on the couch with talking to with the door open, it sounds like.

He says in another comment his wife has sent photos of herself in the lingerie to the client, so it does sound like she's cheating. But sounds like OP has tried to multiple times as well and their marriage sounds extremely unhealthy - not just on her end.

This current post presents a very one-sided view of their relationship. Neither of them are in the right, and I'm concerned for their kids. They have 4 young children, their mom sounds like she's cheating on their dad, their dad sounds like he's trying to cheat on their mom, and their dad violently assaulted someone and broke his wife's property. Cheating is wrong, but violence is too.

One of his previous posts.

https://www.unddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/10dkof5/30m_24f_looking_for_honest_opinions_and_what/