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ebruley OP t1_j6ox4tn wrote

Reply to comment by Username_1379 in What do I (19m) do about my girlfriend (18f) by ebruley

This is partially where the problem lies, the other day when i told her I couldn’t come over because of my 3 midterms the next day but i would make it up to her over the weekend, she gave me the cold shoulder and told me not to even worry about coming over. I constantly try to give her reassure because it isn’t that I don’t want to see her (I tell her this specifically”) it’s that so don’t have another choice and I need to grind out whatever it is in front of me at that moment.

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Username_1379 t1_j6oxj1k wrote

Hmmm. Fair enough. It sounds like she’s a bit hung up on herself rather than understanding that school work should be the top priority here.

Just because you’re studying doesn’t mean that you don’t care about her.

I suppose I would sit down with yourself to really think about if you can accept how she treats you. I’m not sure if there’s a magical way you can explain it to make her better understand your perspective. You’ll have to decide what your limits/boundaries are for how you’re treated in a romantic relationship.

I wish I had a better answer for you!

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