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Boysenberry1919 t1_j6kj4or wrote

>I trust him but I don't trust her

You don't have to trust her. You're not in a relationship with her. Simple as that. If it turns out you don't actually trust him around her then perhaps re-evaluate why that is.

>it bothers me he doesn't seem to listen.

Ignoring your concerns outright isn't cool. That's probably a bigger concern. But I would try to address that with him first before deciding where the relationship ultimately goes.

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Cait_2000 OP t1_j6kjil6 wrote

You're right, clearly I mustn't fully trust him. I am certain he wouldn't do anything intentionally but I'm not certain something accidental won't happen.

I'll have a chat with him tonight and see how it goes. Depending on his response I'll give it some time and lay out a boundary that if she becomes a reoccurring theme in our relationship I'm not interested. It's just difficult because I do work in the same place as him and 100% would have to find a different job haha

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