MckittenMan t1_j6kicsq wrote on January 30, 2023 at 11:40 PM

Reply to comment by Cait_2000 in My (23f) boyfriend (23m) and his friend (23f) by Cait_2000

>don't get your heart broken

Ooooh. She don't like you like you.

Yeah... that is no go in my book.

To me, that sounds like she is potentially jealous of you, and jealousy usually means one thing... Feelings.

Which your BF is either oblivious to, or kindling.

Cait_2000 OP t1_j6kj55z wrote on January 30, 2023 at 11:46 PM

I feel like he is oblivious to it but I have tried to point it out to him, saying she's had his full attention for four months and now I'm in the picture all of these small little things have started happening. He did mention when he first met her he fancied him (which was max only 4 months ago haha) so I know he finds her attractive. I don't think he's the type of guy to do anything untowards but accidents can happen and that'd be the end of it for me anyway.

MckittenMan t1_j6kltoc wrote on January 31, 2023 at 12:05 AM

Yeah, fuck that noise.

He gave you an indication of subtle interest at a point.

Even though he is in a relationship, and protected by the "we're just friends" label.

I bet her attention feels good to him, even if it is on the smallest level possible.

Cait_2000 OP t1_j6kng8p wrote on January 31, 2023 at 12:16 AM

That right there, you've hit the nail on the head. I appreciate you! Needed to hear that honestly.

MckittenMan t1_j6ko4oh wrote on January 31, 2023 at 12:21 AM

r/relationship_advice has your back.

Take care now.