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VanMan32 t1_j6oyxm9 wrote

He’s not guilty about doing it. He’s guilty he got caught. If you don’t think you can trust him again, move on.

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trishsf t1_j6oz2wh wrote

Why would you want to stay with someone who is sick but refuses to leave the house to get help? Seriously. That’s depression way past the point that anyone who isn’t a professional can help. It’s like saying I know I have cancer and that if I treat it, I’ll be healthy but I’m not going to treat it.

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[deleted] OP t1_j6p0966 wrote

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trishsf t1_j6p4690 wrote

I thought he wouldn’t leave the house to get help? Only you know if you can get past his actions.

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SheBeeMe t1_j6oza3r wrote

He's "anxious," so he reaches out to another woman to flirt? Sounds shady and manipulative. He's responsible for his behavior, and it's time for you to hold him accountable. He's 30 years old. He knows what is right and wrong.

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[deleted] OP t1_j6ozij5 wrote

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SheBeeMe t1_j6p0tny wrote

He could have said, "I'm in a relationship." If he entertained her, he knew what he was doing. It would cause me to lose trust in him. It would cause me to question what else he does that I do not know about.

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[deleted] OP t1_j6p10or wrote

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SheBeeMe t1_j6p6mvl wrote

She's messy for trying it, but he should have shut it down. Good luck.

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