[deleted] OP t1_j6hdf8u wrote on January 30, 2023 at 9:38 AM

Reply to comment by thirtyeighthours in I (23m) downloaded a dating app after a year of dating 4 months ago and my (23f) girlfriend broke up with me today by [deleted]

Im not trying to explain anything away, i know what ive done and that it will more likely then not cost me someone i care about, just trying to give you the whole picture, obviously the bad is going to be remembered 99% of the time compared to the good but you cant tell me i dont care about her without witnessing the other 15 months of our relationship

thirtyeighthours t1_j6he4d6 wrote on January 30, 2023 at 9:48 AM

No, this is where you're wrong. Love means never intentionally hurting your partner. One bad decision (not a mistake) DOES over-shadow the other 99%.

Your ex can (and so can other women) find a partner who never intentionally hurts her. In your next relationship you need to make sure you don't do anything that would hurt that person or that would cause them to end it.

[deleted] OP t1_j6hein1 wrote on January 30, 2023 at 9:54 AM

I love my mom but have definitely done things that have hurt her, does that mean i dont love her no, its means im selfish and chose to put myself over other people without thinking of the consequences

[deleted] OP t1_j6hu7ou wrote on January 30, 2023 at 1:04 PM

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