You can just straight tell him that you would really like him to give you oral. Its also important that you lead him during it a little to your sweet-spots, so he can make you cum.

Once he learned that you can cum from him giving oral, he will probably put more effort into it, too. Also, try to be as clean as possible.

Your taste is not that important, most guys have their "ways" to work around bad taste and do not really mind. So do not worry too much about that but you can still ask if you taste bad if he acts kind of flaky around the subject.

You can want to learn communicating all you want but the fun thing is, communication comes from talking and listening a lot so do not avoid topics that seem a bit embaressing. Embrace them and with the right person, it will be rewarded.

Just ask him!

Thays not meant to be short and flippant... it's really that simple

> But I would love for him to take the lead and tell me where to go and what to do all the way through.

Literally say these exact words to him, and ask gim to go down on you. He's 31, not 18 you can be direct.

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Asking for what you would like sexually in a sexual relationship doesn't make you overwhelming or a nag (unless you keep pestering him about it after you've already addressed it together, say twice). Asking for what you want is just communicating your needs.

If you call him selfish and say 'hey, I'm always blowing you but you never go down on me,' that's hella improper. But if you ask, 'hey, I'd really like it if you went down on me, are you up for that?' there's nothing wrong with that.

You shouldn't have to , he's being selfish that's why he chose someone so much younger than him.

Tell him if he doesn’t reciprocate they’ll be no more bjs