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bingbongbingbonggg OP t1_j2fkojh wrote

Right. I think this is really hard for me because he’s been the perfect partner in other capacities and I love him. That’s why I’m trying to get an outsider perspective to see past the rose tinted glasses

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barukspinoza t1_j2flyht wrote

That is always so hard and I totally get wanting a neutral opinion on it. But of all the perfectness, if you cannot trust your partner 100% there’s always going to be that seed of doubt/suspicion that is going to erode any good foundation that has been set.

Everyone is different and has different priorities, but if I were in another relationship and anything happened that questioned if I could trust my partner or not it’s game over.

Because you can find someone just as perfect that you can trust.

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