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melasuarus t1_j2bxwxv wrote

Oh this hurts. I was that 19 yr old once. This is almost identical except I got to leave easily because i didn't have a child with him. This doesn't matter. Leave him. Lean on friends and family. There is so much more to life than this and you are at a great age to press the reset button. I did and it turned out better than i ever could have imagined. Don't wait. How do you want next years new years eve to look?

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theoway1945 OP t1_j2c253g wrote

I am so happy that you got out and I hope you're thriving now.

I want to play games with my son and be silly. I want to live in a home that I can clean only once a day and not have to clean up after my husband every second. I would like to have some friends to text a happy new year message to. I'd like to be looking forward to a year of happy days.

You're right, that's not going to happen if I don't start working towards getting out of here. Thank you so much

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