BluLilyx OP t1_j2fp9lw wrote on December 31, 2022 at 10:55 PM

Reply to comment by k-Unsolicited in (23F)(25M) Is it too early for couples therapy by BluLilyx

Not to check on him, just to make him more comfortable and not alone. It may make him feel better/more comfortable if we are working on the relationship together vs just him getting therapy by himself. He has a super hard time with being vulnerable and I don’t want him to feel pressured by me telling him he needs to go to therapy.

k-Unsolicited t1_j2fppmc wrote on December 31, 2022 at 10:59 PM

He can do it by himself then let you know whether or not he was comfortable though. If he is working on himself, it's not going to be comfortable and it probably won't be more comfortable with you there since you told him he needed to open up for the relationship to survive.