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k-Unsolicited t1_j2fomxr wrote

Your reasoning for couples therapy is kinds to check on him which is weird.

But there is nothing wrong with individual therapy or yall doing couples therapy for a normal reason.

And it's never too early to do therapy (in most cases) people usually wait until it's too late.

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BluLilyx OP t1_j2fp9lw wrote

Not to check on him, just to make him more comfortable and not alone. It may make him feel better/more comfortable if we are working on the relationship together vs just him getting therapy by himself. He has a super hard time with being vulnerable and I don’t want him to feel pressured by me telling him he needs to go to therapy.

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k-Unsolicited t1_j2fppmc wrote

He can do it by himself then let you know whether or not he was comfortable though. If he is working on himself, it's not going to be comfortable and it probably won't be more comfortable with you there since you told him he needed to open up for the relationship to survive.

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