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Do? What do you mean "do"? You go on with your life.

If only it that was easy we both live in sandbanks she left cause I left for a month so now I need advice on what to do to get her back

Leave her alone, dude. If she's not answering your calls it means she doesn't want to talk to you.

There's definitely no magic spell here. You give her all the time and space she wants.

It sounds like she's left permanently, not just because you left for a month. I feel like there's a lot of missing information.

No miss information she is just crazy and cant accept other people can do other things

but she didn't leave me alone when she phoned me over 100 times in 1 day when I didn't want to talk to her lol she doesn't respect anyone

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If she "doesn't respect anyone," you don't need to get back together with her.

Don't know what to tell you, dude. Girl dumped you. You haven't said one single thing that suggests you should get another chance. You definitely don't sound sorry. Now you're attacking her.

I don't know what's going here, but it sounds like you need to do some self-reflection.

I mean I went to Qatar to watch the world cup that is the biggest sporting event in the world she was happy for me to go but I get back and my car is gone and now she wont answer the phone she is so overly dramatic and I don't need any self reflection I am normal

Cool. I'm going to move on now. Bye-bye.