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I'm of the "what's good for the goose is good for the gander" mindset. If there has been another man in the mix, it seems fair to have another woman, too. I also understand that you're not comfortable with it, and this whole thing needs a long serious conversation with your husband.

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Don't be forced into making such decisions about something you're not inclined to do. If you're not down with a theeesome then don't give him to his fantasies just because he's your husband. He wants something but what about you? Don't he know such things can have extreme consequences and regrets later don't in life even if he may think its fine now but your thought process may not agree with it. If your NO is NO then stick with it and don't feel regret.