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novaaa_ t1_j2b4m18 wrote

take this as a hint and get him low effort, cheap gifts from this point on. he clearly doesn’t put in the same amount of effort or money as u do

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AriesDog82 t1_j2b55hg wrote

Get him gag gifts from now on because he's a joke

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Turbulent-Fox-732 t1_j2b6j1y wrote

I know people will say 'well maybe they're just not good at gift giving'.

That is a load of fucking bullshit. Everyone is a fantastic gift giver if they actually care about and value the person. Gift giving is a pretty fool proof way to determine where you stand with someone. And I think he's been very clear with you about how much he thinks you have.

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Living-the-dream2525 t1_j2b7bpq wrote

At some point you will realize it doesn't matter what kind of present you get, it is the fact you don't EVER get a present and if by chance you do, it was probably something last minute or something he was given and never would use.

Eventually, you will figure out that the lack of respect your boyfriend has for you by never giving you a gift is just the tip of the iceberg and then you will come out of the fog and see many other instances of his lack of respect for you as not only his girlfriend, but as a person.

Best of luck, maybe this will be the wakeup call you need to find a man who deserves you???

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