Wonderful name for that advice you throwing. I believe it’s hard to use that defense in some states and situations.

Maybe the state has laws that could allow for this situation.

Legal stuff aside (I’m not a lawyer and all reddit advice should be taken with a grain of searching for the Boston marathon bomber salt).

I say trust is gone so you would need to have a long conversation about how you feel and what kind of relationship you are looking for (a healthy honest one essentially). You can forgive her if you feel a true connection and she has not lied about anything else. You would have to work on your trust with her and she should understand that going forward since trust is not a given.