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Consistent_Patient88 t1_j2e4zlq wrote

Reply to comment by ThrowRAChancez in [27f][29m] My bf has a female friend that he has stopped me from hanging out with over the 8 years we've been together. by ThrowRAChancez

Aw come on. He’s literally said if she starts something he won’t stop in. Kick his ass out and find someone decent. You deserve better. Why are you allowing him to treat you like this?

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ThrowRAChancez OP t1_j2e8mxp wrote

You know the whole spiel: "I never said that, that's not what I meant, you're twisting my words, why are you jealous, I'm here with you, what about my happiness". I feel crazy saying this, but it feels like he's trying to break me down until i crack. Between work and my iron deficieny I was too tired to catch anything in time. I wanted to take him for his word, but sadly finding out you really can't do that, once someone shows themselves. I think I went autopilot for like 3 years because I can't remember 2015-2018.

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snarfblattinconcert t1_j2eb6n5 wrote

The Narcissist's Prayer by Dayna Craig:

That didn't happen. And if it did, it wasn't that bad. And if it was, that's not a big deal. And if it is, that's not my fault. And if it was, I didn't mean it. And if I did, you deserved it.

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pPC_bC t1_j2fiq52 wrote

You're 27, young but not young enough to waste more years in a relationship where you're the placeholder waiting to be dropped soon as the bff decides she wants your bf.

Do you want to wait 8 more years?

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