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MaryAnne0601 t1_j2ctrrm wrote

Do the DNA test and if yes get an attorney. Do not try and work it out yourselves if it’s yours. This is not a reasonable woman. How do I know? Because reasonable women don’t wait 2 years to contact the father!!

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ThrowRaConfusedAF090 OP t1_j2cuf0f wrote

He mentioned that the ex has history of lying for attention. So he's unsure whether or not she's lying

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Lucavii t1_j2cybar wrote

DNA tests don't lie

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Standard-Wonder-523 t1_j2doto2 wrote

She might not actually even have a kid. And if she has a kid, it might not be hers. I think that's the level of lying that might be going on...

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Lucavii t1_j2dp4vg wrote

>She might not actually even have a kid

Yeah, well insisting on a DNA test conveniently solves this lie too

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ForceEnvironmental20 t1_j2fsq05 wrote

Yep. Refusal to do a DNA test implicates the possibility of two lies: (a) she's lying about him being the father or isn't actually sure, or (b) the child doesn't exist. The DNA test solves both.

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spyddarnaut t1_j2czeuq wrote

If she usually lies to get attention. Work on getting an ‘agent’ who can get the paternity confirmation in his stead. If you can’t afford a lawyer to manage the whole exchange, a sister or a really close friend might suffice.

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