[23F] [45M] My boyfriend is treating me like shit today

Submitted by throwranotmarrying t3_1001u5r in relationship_advice

I feel like it’s a string of small things and he’s just being angry at me for no reason.

My stomach was hurting this morning and I told him I was going to rest for a bit, and that I wasn’t hungry. An hour later he gets mad when I decline breakfast.

We went biking a bit ago. When we got done I put the bike on the garage. I was resting for a bit because we (him and his sons) just biked like an hour and we didn’t bring any water. He tells me to carry his rifle up and I say “give me a minute.” Then he starts telling me to leave and go home. I just wanted to rest for a second because I was barely keeping up, like just one minute.

I’m writing this as a gather my stuff. I feel like if I’m not acting how he wants, then he will make a bigger deal than what it is.

0

Comments

You must log in or register to comment.

MissNikitaDevan t1_j2ezwfr wrote

Leave… and dont ever go back

No reasonable adult of 45 years old would date someone young enough to be their child

People who do tend to have control issues and go for someone more vunerable

8

otisdog t1_j2f45ly wrote

I am going to put this as gently as possible. That kind of behavior is not ok. In the context of the age gap, recognizing i know very little about yall, your relationship does not sound good. At all. You need to really try to be objective and think about what youre doing here, why, and whether you think it is sustainable.

5

HatsAndTopcoats t1_j2f5p19 wrote

He doesn't respect you. He thinks he's entitled to have you do whatever he wants. He does not consider you an equal partner whose feelings are as important as his. The reason he's dating someone so much younger than himself is that he can treat you like this and you'll accept it instead of having the confidence to demand respect.

3

Pale_Height_1251 t1_j2fhlrh wrote

He's old enough to be your dad.

Find someone nearer your own age.

2

AutoModerator t1_j2ey3v9 wrote

Welcome to /r/relationship_advice. Please make sure you read our rules here. We'd like to take this time to remind users that:

  • We do not allow any type of am I the asshole? or situations/content involving minors

  • Any sort of namecalling, insults,etc will result in the comment being removed and the user being banned. (Including but not limited to: slut, bitch, whore, for the streets, etc. It does not matter to whom you are referring.)

  • ALL advice given must be good, ethical advice. Joke advice or advice that is conspiratorial or just plain terrible will be removed, and users my be subject to a ban.

  • No referencing hateful subreddits and/or their rhetoric. Examples include, but is not limited to: red/blue/black/purplepill, PUA, FDS, MGTOW, etc. This includes, but is not limited to, referring to people as alpha/beta, calling yourself or users "friend-zoned", referring to people as Chads, Tyrones, or Staceys, pick-me's, or pornsick. Any infractions of this rule will result in a ban. This is not an all-inclusive list.

  • All bans in this subreddit are permanent. You don't get a free pass.

  • What we cannot give advice on: rants, unsolicited advice, medical conditions/advice, mental illness, letters to an ex, "body counts" or number of sexual partners, legal problems, financial problems, situations involving minors, and/or abuse (violence, sexual, emotional etc). All of these will be removed and locked. This is not an all-inclusive list.

If you have any questions, please send us a modmail.

#This is an automatic comment that appears on all posts. This comment does not necessarily mean your post violates any rules.

I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns.

1

Jimi204 t1_j2eyh95 wrote

Does this happen frequently?

1

sugarmag13 t1_j2fc7q3 wrote

Did you say your father or your BF?

1