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inmyfeelings22 OP t1_j2dpor9 wrote

Reply to comment by [deleted] in [24M] [24F] I think I assaulted my best friend while drunk and I don't know what to do by inmyfeelings22

I don't think we had sex, she was wearing pyjamas when I came to.

No I'm 100% she wouldn't want more. She flirts when drunk but when we're both sober we have discussed in length that we both want different things (re: kids)

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Transmutagen t1_j2dsuzn wrote

Rationally, you both know you shouldn’t sleep together. Emotionally/physically you both aren’t quite as sure about it.

Maybe it’s time to set some healthy boundaries - for instance “if either one of us has been drinking we probably shouldn’t sleep in the same bed”.

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inmyfeelings22 OP t1_j2dtll5 wrote

I think you hit the nail on the head on both counts and yeah I'll definitely be taking this sofa from now on if we've been drinking.
I still don't really know whether to bring up what happened with her.

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Transmutagen t1_j2e2djx wrote

If you’re willing to talk about it with people on the internet you should probably be willing to talk about it with the other person involved.

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