[18F] [20M] Sooo I was playing roblox with my bf

Submitted by Aggravating_Key_5650 t3_zyqzsz in relationship_advice

Sooo I was playing roblox with my bf and we was playing some pet game simulator, was doing fine until this guy started trading us and so we started completed the game faster then we was supposed. Then this guy came back again and gave him like 10 more I believe but wasn’t able to trade me any, so I got kinda upset that my bf was completing the game faster or like move faster then me. Idk how I really feel on the situation or why I felt this way it like I just wanted to play them game with him, but also my bf tried to trade me but I was being stubborn and didn’t accept. Then I was like I want him to play with me not the other guy but he wasn’t playing with him really ig just getting tips from him. And this has happened before with cod cause we was also playing with other players and I wanted him to myself in a way. But I’m also competitive…. Idk, idk what to do with myself tbh feels like I mess up everything anymore have any advice?

There also a long story about our relationship im just not a good gf

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urtv670 t1_j27g32z wrote

You sure yall aren't like 12? This reaction is very childish ngl.

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Aggravating_Key_5650 OP t1_j27gdye wrote

Nah the right age💀 also forgot to mention he had got off the game I tried cheering him up apologizing

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urtv670 t1_j27h7z1 wrote

That's good but being real the way you acted wasn't very mature. You should probably work on your conflict resolution skills better.

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Aggravating_Key_5650 OP t1_j27kko3 wrote

Yeah I’m working on it being in a house hold of mad shit, I grew up very independent closed off and working on being more myself how I used to be as young I mean I’m young still but ykw I mean, I want some advice on how do I stop being this way I been doing a lot of self improvement but I can’t shake this idk if it’s me being competitive wanting to be the best or just being extremely clingy

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Aggravating_Key_5650 OP t1_j27kmp1 wrote

Do you have any advice anything would be helpful

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urtv670 t1_j27kyit wrote

Well for starters communication is important. If you're upset you should calmly explain why you are upset and maybe suggest ways to alleviate your issues. You were upset cause your bf had the extra pets well then you should have said something to him and suggested how he could make you feel better instead of stone walling him when he tried.

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Aggravating_Key_5650 OP t1_j27lpff wrote

Yeah ik 💀 I wasn’t mad on the more pets really I just wanted to program the same time in a way idk

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urtv670 t1_j27lso6 wrote

Then voice that. He can't read your mind so you shouldn't expect him to. Talk to him and come to healthy resolutions.

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Aggravating_Key_5650 OP t1_j27m692 wrote

I try to but sometimes it feel like it’s not getting out or I’m not saying right, then sometimes it feels like he’s not listening which I do tell him

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urtv670 t1_j27me44 wrote

Maybe you should seek therapy to find healthy coping mechanisms so thos doesn't happen.

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Aggravating_Key_5650 OP t1_j27mtbt wrote

They are so far mann I’m trying😭 Tryna see if my doc can get me one for free as well and find a easy transportation to it

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urtv670 t1_j27mvrc wrote

See about one of those online therapists

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Aggravating_Key_5650 OP t1_j27n6cl wrote

I was thinking about it but I feel like in person would be better. Also I don’t wanna pay to much for one, I still have my college and etc

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urtv670 t1_j27n8mj wrote

If you're in college check to see if your college offers free therapy. They usually do

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Aggravating_Key_5650 OP t1_j27o47k wrote

Not in yet but will be in a few months getting stuff ready

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Mean_Environment4856 t1_j27i9my wrote

This sounds like it was written by a 12yo not an 18yo.

You sound like you are very immature and manipulative. Your behaviour was not how you resolve conflict.

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Aggravating_Key_5650 OP t1_j27kj1a wrote

Yeah I’m working on it being in a house hold of mad shit, I grew up very independent closed off and working on being more myself how I used to be as young I mean I’m young still but ykw I mean, I want some advice on how do I stop being this way I been doing a lot of self improvement but I can’t shake this idk if it’s me being competitive wanting to be the best or just being extremely clingy

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Mean_Environment4856 t1_j27p7bp wrote

You're not being 'competitive'. You simply don't want him to be paying attention to anyone other than you even in team games. If you can't handle the fact he's going to talk to others when you game,then irs probably not something you should be doing together

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Aggravating_Key_5650 OP t1_j27rr1x wrote

It’s not the talking to others when it was cod I just wanted the first time to be us as I ain’t know the game well and felt left out, and in the game today it just felt we wasn’t playing together as he was finishing stuff faster after I sat I noticed I was being dumb. And it’s leasing to him nit wanting to play with me and sometimes Ik it’s me being competitive cause the sec time playing cod I was more upset that I couldn’t help

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