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urtv670 t1_j27kyit wrote

Reply to comment by Aggravating_Key_5650 in [18F] [20M] Sooo I was playing roblox with my bf by Aggravating_Key_5650

Well for starters communication is important. If you're upset you should calmly explain why you are upset and maybe suggest ways to alleviate your issues. You were upset cause your bf had the extra pets well then you should have said something to him and suggested how he could make you feel better instead of stone walling him when he tried.

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Aggravating_Key_5650 OP t1_j27lpff wrote

Yeah ik 💀 I wasn’t mad on the more pets really I just wanted to program the same time in a way idk

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urtv670 t1_j27lso6 wrote

Then voice that. He can't read your mind so you shouldn't expect him to. Talk to him and come to healthy resolutions.

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Aggravating_Key_5650 OP t1_j27m692 wrote

I try to but sometimes it feel like it’s not getting out or I’m not saying right, then sometimes it feels like he’s not listening which I do tell him

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urtv670 t1_j27me44 wrote

Maybe you should seek therapy to find healthy coping mechanisms so thos doesn't happen.

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Aggravating_Key_5650 OP t1_j27mtbt wrote

They are so far mann I’m trying😭 Tryna see if my doc can get me one for free as well and find a easy transportation to it

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urtv670 t1_j27mvrc wrote

See about one of those online therapists

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Aggravating_Key_5650 OP t1_j27n6cl wrote

I was thinking about it but I feel like in person would be better. Also I don’t wanna pay to much for one, I still have my college and etc

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urtv670 t1_j27n8mj wrote

If you're in college check to see if your college offers free therapy. They usually do

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Aggravating_Key_5650 OP t1_j27o47k wrote

Not in yet but will be in a few months getting stuff ready

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