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urtv670 t1_j27g32z wrote

You sure yall aren't like 12? This reaction is very childish ngl.

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Aggravating_Key_5650 OP t1_j27gdye wrote

Nah the right age💀 also forgot to mention he had got off the game I tried cheering him up apologizing

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urtv670 t1_j27h7z1 wrote

That's good but being real the way you acted wasn't very mature. You should probably work on your conflict resolution skills better.

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Aggravating_Key_5650 OP t1_j27kko3 wrote

Yeah I’m working on it being in a house hold of mad shit, I grew up very independent closed off and working on being more myself how I used to be as young I mean I’m young still but ykw I mean, I want some advice on how do I stop being this way I been doing a lot of self improvement but I can’t shake this idk if it’s me being competitive wanting to be the best or just being extremely clingy

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Aggravating_Key_5650 OP t1_j27kmp1 wrote

Do you have any advice anything would be helpful

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urtv670 t1_j27kyit wrote

Well for starters communication is important. If you're upset you should calmly explain why you are upset and maybe suggest ways to alleviate your issues. You were upset cause your bf had the extra pets well then you should have said something to him and suggested how he could make you feel better instead of stone walling him when he tried.

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Aggravating_Key_5650 OP t1_j27lpff wrote

Yeah ik 💀 I wasn’t mad on the more pets really I just wanted to program the same time in a way idk

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urtv670 t1_j27lso6 wrote

Then voice that. He can't read your mind so you shouldn't expect him to. Talk to him and come to healthy resolutions.

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Aggravating_Key_5650 OP t1_j27m692 wrote

I try to but sometimes it feel like it’s not getting out or I’m not saying right, then sometimes it feels like he’s not listening which I do tell him

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urtv670 t1_j27me44 wrote

Maybe you should seek therapy to find healthy coping mechanisms so thos doesn't happen.

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Aggravating_Key_5650 OP t1_j27mtbt wrote

They are so far mann I’m trying😭 Tryna see if my doc can get me one for free as well and find a easy transportation to it

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urtv670 t1_j27mvrc wrote

See about one of those online therapists

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Aggravating_Key_5650 OP t1_j27n6cl wrote

I was thinking about it but I feel like in person would be better. Also I don’t wanna pay to much for one, I still have my college and etc

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urtv670 t1_j27n8mj wrote

If you're in college check to see if your college offers free therapy. They usually do

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Aggravating_Key_5650 OP t1_j27o47k wrote

Not in yet but will be in a few months getting stuff ready

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